Yes, I've seen that thinking and I don't agree with it. Yes, there are times when the father shouldn't be consulted, such as rape and incest, but to say that the man has no right to even voice his opinion is wrong.
it annoys me to no end to see the notion of "rights" (as in constitutional rights) drug into a discussion of abortion. maybe we should federalize the father's "rights", too. and while we're at it, let's get the various associated grandparents.
abortion has no business being addressed on the federal level. it oughta be kicked back to the states. if it belongs anywhere, it belongs there.